stop accepting and stressing yourselves out over the demands of todays boys and men. It is becuase of you that he even brushes his teeth once a day! You know the saying: if there were no women in the world, there would be no barbers. Now I’m not saying let yourself go and leave the perfume on the dresser, but don’t go mad trying to please these less then perfect males.

The butt shot phenomenon is already on a plateau I never forsaw. The fact that it is now the norm for a woman to have them is, well deplorable. Illegally injecting yourself with unknown materials so that you can get more attention and adoration from men? A friend of mine told me she was in American Apparel and saw a woman with blood running down her thighs from her fresh injections. And in the words of Killa Fckng Cam…

the sh— disgust me, keep the chickens cluckin…

                             So ladies…what are you gonna do?

Weave your head forever?

Go broke in Bloomies and Barneys every week?

Eat everything in sight so you can have a phatty?

You’re not good enough as you are? ‘Cuz at some point he’s gonna see you without your weave and in sweats and a tee (if not ur birthday suit). And if you don’t look even more radiant to him then, then all that spending and stressin’ would have been in vain and you’ll just be stuck with your lonely shopaholic friends again.

The next time a dude tells you something disparaging like: “you don’t got no butt”, or “I like curly black hair”, just look at him and be honest. Is he even meeting the requirements he’s expecting from a woman? Does he have curly black hair??? Is even meeting the demands that YOU have for a man? Does he have a washboard stomach? Smooth skin? Clear skin? Straight white teeth? A  damn degree? Well then how can he be expecting so much out of when he ain’t even all that?? Women you are smarter than that. You have the power.

   Don’t let these dudes have u second guessing yourselves.